2013/04/22

WHAT DOES A TEENAGER REALLY NEED FROM A FATHER?


WHAT DOES A TEENAGER REALLY NEED FROM A FATHER?

I believe that all people wish good things to their descendants from generation to generation. They always hope that their next generations increase in number and quality. The improvement of next generations are built since their teenage years. But, whether our actions in leading teenagers have been realistic for them or not, is the big and important question.

If we honestly observe the condition of teenagers nowadays, then we can make a conclution that many teenagers are lost of direction. Unconciously, they are misled by many things in this world causing them disoriented, and run on unrealistic ways and reach for unrealistic dream. Many times they think that they have walked rightly, but their journeys of life  are ended with frustration, becoming slaves, getting drunk, drug addict, having free sex, smooking cigarettes, and so on.

So, how should we build a good generation? By buillding it since their childhood and teenage years. Building it must be applied continuously day by day. A teenager does need a true model in his life that he can not find at school and everywhere outside of home. A teenager can not find the true model at school and everywhere outside of home because a teenager finds different characters and teachings among his teachers and among people he is looking at outside which can cause confusion in a teenager's mental. A teenager should find a true model in his own real father. A father need to guide his children every day in the good way. A father must give true knowledges to his children day by day train his children to have skills according to the knowledges they have. A father need to filter all teachings and characters which a teenager get from outside of home and reexplain them to him. That is why a father need to have a wide insight.

Imagine if a father leaves home in the morning to work and come back at evening without being seen by his children. How can a father give a true model to his children in this way? And where do his chlidren get the true model from in this way? And also imagine if children leave to school in the morning and come back home at evening. How do they get a real model and how does their father give a true model to them? A father need to reconsider his job so that he can give a true model to his hildren while he is working. That is why I said that many teenagers are lost of diretion.

Starting and running your own business is realistic and urgent in order that you can share your skill, your knowledge, and your life to your children. And choosing a school where your children can have the balanced theory with practice is very important. Children don't need to waste their time at school where they can not get the balanced theory with practice. You can choose a short program of education where your children can find knowledge and skills to support the vision you have to your children.

BE WITH YOUR CHILDREN TO SHOW THEM A MODEL! WE ARE LIVING REALISTIC BY THIS WAY.

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