Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family. Show all posts

2013/04/26

TWO OF UNREALISTIC THOUGHTS OF MANY WHICH CAUSE THE MOST HARMFUL EVER.


TWO OF UNREALISTIC THOUGHTS OF MANY WHICH CAUSE THE MOST HARMFUL EVER.

The most harmful ever experienced by people in this world is oil scarcity and air pollution. Many countries are lack of oil and the air around the cities is polluted by many cars and others machinery transportations. Many solitions were made to overcome oil scarcity and air pollution yet not hitting the mark because they don't fix and solve the source of problem.

The source of problem of oil scarcity and air pollution in all over the world is caused by the rapid movement of people every day. People move very fast here and there every day using machinery transportations which use oil and cause air pollution.

The rapid movement of many people every day is caused by two of unrealistic thoughts of many. They are:

  1. Going to school every day. You can imagine how many cars, buses, trains, and motorcycles people use to go to school every day, and imagine how much oil people need and how polluted the air caused is. People should not go to schoool to study and learn things. People should study and learn at home so that people can practice directly what they study and learn. By having some books, internet access,  laboratory, and the field, people can study and learn optimal. A father can guide his children to learn and invite a skillful expert to complete the skill of his children. Teacher/expert does move. Not children/students do. By studying at home, children can have a balanced theory with practice because children can have more time to practice. By this way, we prevent the greed of some people to start commercial school and prevent oil scarity and air pollution.
  2. Going to work every day in another's company. You can imagine how many cars, buses, trains, and motorcycles people use to go to work every day, and imagine how much oil people need and how polluted the air caused is. People should not go to another's company to work. People should work in their own company so that they can teach, train, love, and care of his own family at once. By this way, we prevent the greed of some people to start commercial company and prevent oil scarity and air pollution.
WE ARE LIVING REALISTIC BY WORKING IN OUR OWN BUSINESS AND BY STUDYING AND PRACTICE AT HOME.

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2013/04/22

WHAT DOES A TEENAGER REALLY NEED FROM A FATHER?


WHAT DOES A TEENAGER REALLY NEED FROM A FATHER?

I believe that all people wish good things to their descendants from generation to generation. They always hope that their next generations increase in number and quality. The improvement of next generations are built since their teenage years. But, whether our actions in leading teenagers have been realistic for them or not, is the big and important question.

If we honestly observe the condition of teenagers nowadays, then we can make a conclution that many teenagers are lost of direction. Unconciously, they are misled by many things in this world causing them disoriented, and run on unrealistic ways and reach for unrealistic dream. Many times they think that they have walked rightly, but their journeys of life  are ended with frustration, becoming slaves, getting drunk, drug addict, having free sex, smooking cigarettes, and so on.

So, how should we build a good generation? By buillding it since their childhood and teenage years. Building it must be applied continuously day by day. A teenager does need a true model in his life that he can not find at school and everywhere outside of home. A teenager can not find the true model at school and everywhere outside of home because a teenager finds different characters and teachings among his teachers and among people he is looking at outside which can cause confusion in a teenager's mental. A teenager should find a true model in his own real father. A father need to guide his children every day in the good way. A father must give true knowledges to his children day by day train his children to have skills according to the knowledges they have. A father need to filter all teachings and characters which a teenager get from outside of home and reexplain them to him. That is why a father need to have a wide insight.

Imagine if a father leaves home in the morning to work and come back at evening without being seen by his children. How can a father give a true model to his children in this way? And where do his chlidren get the true model from in this way? And also imagine if children leave to school in the morning and come back home at evening. How do they get a real model and how does their father give a true model to them? A father need to reconsider his job so that he can give a true model to his hildren while he is working. That is why I said that many teenagers are lost of diretion.

Starting and running your own business is realistic and urgent in order that you can share your skill, your knowledge, and your life to your children. And choosing a school where your children can have the balanced theory with practice is very important. Children don't need to waste their time at school where they can not get the balanced theory with practice. You can choose a short program of education where your children can find knowledge and skills to support the vision you have to your children.

BE WITH YOUR CHILDREN TO SHOW THEM A MODEL! WE ARE LIVING REALISTIC BY THIS WAY.

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2013/04/21

THE REAL NEED OF WOMEN AND THE REALISTIC ROLE OF WOMEN


THE REAL NEED OF WOMEN AND THE REALISTIC ROLE OF WOMEN

We can find the true facts that according to the Word of Elohim, we know where the first woman, Hawa was from. She was taken from the rib of the first man, Adam. And her gens which were from Adam are derived hereditarily down through generations forever. And she was given to Adam to help Adam in his abundance of everything in his landscape, Eden Garden.

From the facts above we can understand that the real need of women is sufficiency. Hawa was not given to Adam in the condition of Adam's lack, but in the condition of Adam's abundance. And the real role of women is helping men. Hawa was given to Adam to help Adam in his landscape, Eden Garden. Elohim knows exactly where a man can find the real help daily and perfectly. A man can find the real help daily and perfectly from a woman.
But the real facts of woman and man above are very contrary with the facts nowadays.We can see nowadays that every man is not seriously prepare his own landscape where he can accomodate the real need of woman and the realistic role of woman. As the result of man's lack and weakness, women find their needs and landscape by their ways. It is not in accordance with the will of Elohim if women find their needs by themselves and build their own landscape. When women act and do inappropriate, we can se the result as we see nowadays that many women are lost. They are frustrated when they don't find their needs, they go everywhere to find their needs, women are not strong enough to face some challenges and temptations, even they do the evil things to find their need such as adultary, harlotry, and prostitution. And as men can not act and do acording to their real role, many women dishonor their men and many couples are not happy at home and ended with divorce.

The solution is that every man must understand his realistic role, and to start learning and working seriously in order that he can prepare his own landscape, fulfil the needs of every woman in his own landscape and accomodate the role of every woman in his landscape. Fulfiling the needs of every woman in his own landscape and accomodating the role of every woman in his landscape does not always mean to have them as wifes, but to love and care of them. I understand that sometimes this world system does not support this way that many men spend their time too much at school unefficient cousing many men can not start their own landscape seriously. Spending time unefficiently at school causes many men look for job in others' companies to fulfill their needs, and even many men are jobless. Working in others' companies will cause disharmony in family because a father/man can not care fully of his women and all his family. We need to find the true system of education so that we can have the balanced theory with practice to support us starting our own landscape.

WE ARE LIVING REALISTIC BY TAKING CARE OF WOMEN.

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2013/04/15

ELOHIM GAVE A WOMAN TO ADAM. NOT A GROUP OF PEOPLE.


ELOHIM GAVE A WOMAN TO ADAM. NOT A GROUP OF PEOPLE.

It has been a tradition to most people to involve themselves to an organization/group or to some organizations/groups. Most people don't feel comfortable when they are not involved in some organizations (religion, custom tribalism, ect). People have various intention to join with a group such as gaining recognition, helps, protections, easiness, conveniences, and other services. Simply, people want to gain helps and easiness by joining with organizations. 

All organizations have their way to gather regularly by weekly, monthly, and annually such as holding certain meetings and ceremonies. And even certain organizations claim that the places they use to meet regularly are holy places (the truth is that all places are holy where we act holy/according to the instrutions of Elohim).

But, is it true that people do gain helps, protections, helps, easiness, and conveniences when they join with organizations? Let's check whether people do gain them when they join with organizations.

In some cases and moments, of course people can gain some easiness when people join with organizations. But when we count detailly, we will see that we gain most losses and disadvantages when we join with organizations. When we count our cost to visit them weekly, monthly, and annually, it is a very big cost. Also if we continue counting our energies to visit them, and how much time we spend to visit and follow all programs and events which the organizations hold. We gain the most losses and disadvantages if we compare with the helps and easinesses we gain from those organizations.

When Elohim (The Ruler and the Creator of all universe, His name is YaHoWaH) saw that Adam (the first man created by Elohim) Adam needed a helper, Elohim did not give a group of people in some organizations, but He gave the only woman-Hawa to him. Adam surely perfomed great works with Hawa, his helper. We can imagine how big and large Eden Garden where Elohim placed Adam and Hawa was, yet, Adam and Hawa were able to manage the garden.

With a woman beside a man, they can work hand by hand to achieve great things. With patience, and with looking at the great potency and power within a man with his woman, they can perform and achieve great things without looking for helps from some organizations around the world. If every man with his woman act this way continuously, then all men around the world will gain the real maturity in mental and in economic. And in the end, there will be prosperity in all around the world.

In this not, I don't mean against cooperating with other people. But what I mean that if every man with his woman reach and gain maturity both mentally and economically, then there will be  a good harmony among people because one don't come to another to always ask for helps anymore, but one will come to another to discuss and love each other to reach the better things together. By this way, there is interdependent with others, not dependent with others.

Consciously or not, most people tend to dependent to others instead of interdependent. It is caused by the lack of ability among people. If we depend on organizations, we can not explore our abilities anymore because we are used to looking for others' in organizations. Interdependent with others is the best way because by this way our relationship with others is built based on each's maturity.

HAPPY EXPLORING YOURSELF! WE ARE LIVING REALISTIC EXPOLRE THE HUGE POTENCY IN OUR LIFE.

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2013/04/14

THE BALANCED THEORY WITH PRACTICE

THE BALANCED THEORY WITH PRACTICE


The balanced theory with practice must be the major purpose and consideration of decision makers regarding education. This is the best way of effectiveness and efficiency in this growing time. As the population growth is increasing very fast every day, people need to use their time efficiently to result prosperity among people. 

This morning I hear a mother get very angry with her daughter because she does not go to school, but sleep instead. Most people have acted as if they cult school without realizing it. They seem very sad and uncomfortable if they don't send their kids to school no matter what the result of schooling their children is.

This is the time that every people must achieve the balanced theory with practice by reconsidering carefully where you go to school. Our time is very precious that we must be carefull to use it. We need to think of many people whom are still very confused of what they want to do even in their 20th of age. Of course they will not be confused if they have a special skill. A special skill is not found if they don't have the balanced theory with practice in their school.

We will have the balanced theory with practice when we spend most of our time in practice than in theory. You can experience things/theories in practice. Our absoption of certain theory is maximal when we directly practice it more and more. Even our knowledge will increase when we practice theories because we will find some new discoveries in practice. Imagine if every school in village has at least 10.000m2 land where students practice how to plant vegetables. They will be productive since their childhood. This is the way people will be prosperous in all around the world for people have been productive since their childhood.  Parents don't need to spend much money to send their children to school where they don't find the way to be productive, but parent will save their money because when their children study at school, they can help their parent at home to produce things according to the skill they find in their school, and parents can share some of their money to the poor to prevent starvation in some parts of the world.

There are at least 4 benefits when we have the balanced theory with practice:
  1. Children can help their parent to produce things according to the skill they find at school since their childhood (there is no limitation of age to produce) .
  2. Students find more fun when they spend most of their time in practice. By this way, there will not be boredom and laziness in students.
  3. The fast growth of population is no more frightening because people can produce since their childhood.
  4. Parents are no more like slaves to children until their graduation, but parent will teach and love children and children will help and love their parent. 
WE ARE LIVING REALISTIC BY HAVING THE BALANCED THEORY WITH PRACTICE.

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2013/03/11

Living Realistic with a Harmonious Family


LIVING REALISTIC WITH A HARMONIOUS FAMILY



Having a harmonious family is something longed for by every body. But having no vision and having no understanding of how to make a harmonious family will make us circling in the wrong way of family's journey. We must have realistic actions to make a harmonious family.  

Our vision and our understanding of our family is build since our childhood with our parents and siblings, and build by our school environment with subjects we learn in it. But unfortunately, our parent did not always show the true examples of what our family will be, and our school environment with subject we learn in it did not wholly teach us the right way to build our own family. Mostly we don't get the realistic.

The most important and realistic thing we must do and apply in our own family is togetherness with the whole members of family as often as possible. For by this way, we as a father can impart our love and examples to wife and children. But, it is contrary with the teaching of some parents to their children that many parents still order their children to study at school and then after graduation, work in a big company which is not theirs. And most schools prepare students to work in other's company, not to establish their own company instead. Of course, by working in other's company will separate a family's members which influences one's family's harmony.

Our own family is the most asset in our lives. Therefore, it is wise to reconsider what we have learnt from our school and what our parent have given us the examples and advises. Every man should start his own business in order that his own family can gather to do and run the business together. By this way, a father can influence his family by his words and by his actions for the sake of the mental and skill of all children. This way is realistic

The stability of the mental of children is very important for their future. Most kids have no stable mental because they separate from their father mostly. And most kids have no basic and strong skill as a great capital for their future. Togetherness is a way to prepare children both mental and skill in order that they think and realistic in their future.

I pray and hope that you have a harmonious family with realistic actions.

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